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Eye Opener (1950
We alcoholics have learned that if we fight liquor, we are bound to lose. We always have. Our only hope is a complete abandonment of any ideas that we might have once entertained that we can drink. We must get sober and learn to like it. We should throw ourselves into all group activities, make our friends from the membership, read all AA literature and other spiritually inspiring books we can get, brush up on our praying.
As you practice this, you will find that whiskey will get further and further from your minds and, when you do think of it, you will regard it as a beverage for some guys but poison for yourself.
 Vernon Howard’s  SECRETS OF LIFE (R)
“Do you think a person who has really found God, Truth, Reality,
would have concealed contempt for other people?”
1500 Ways to Escape the Human Jungle, # 832
February 20,2017
At this juncture, his A.A. sponsor usually laughs.
Before my recovery from alcoholism began, laughter was one of the most painful sounds I knew. I never laughed and I felt that anyone else’s laughter was directed at me! My self-pity and anger denied me the simplest of pleasures or lightness of heart. By the end of my drinking not even alcohol could provoke a drunken giggle in me.
When my A.A. sponsor began to laugh and point out my self-pity and ego-feeding deceptions, I was annoyed and hurt, but it taught me to lighten up and focus on my recovery. I soon learned to laugh at myself and eventually I taught those I sponsor to laugh also. Every day I ask God to help me stop taking myself too seriously.
From the book Daily Reflections
Copyright © 1990 by Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.

True mystics have not denied the reality of individuality. 
They have all agreed that the the soul is on the pathway of experience; 
Of self discovery on the way to the Father’s House. 
The Science of Mind page 419 

Kindness – I like to treat myself with a Grandmother’s heart.
 Al-Anon is where we can practice kindness to ourselves. 
Ala-non member

 We are all special but not that special
 because God is here as you.
She was a hybrid moon a playground of grief a queen searching for her star.
Rune Lazuli 
Love’s secret is always lifting its head out from under the covers, 
“Here I am!”
~Rumi, as interpreted by Coleman Barks
ACIM Workbook Lesson 51 Insights
Review of lessons 1-5
The part of the lesson that particularly stood out to me today was how we are constantly trying to justify our thoughts. I thought of the statement in the Course, “Beware of the temptation to perceive yourself unfairly treated.” Sometimes it seems quite easy to see others doing this. I see how these judgments bring pain and unhappiness, a sense of hopelessness and resentment. I can see how great effort is put into defending limitations, insisting that they are real.
If the particular form of this defense is not one that I identify with, its easy for me to see how meaningless it is. It is not so easy for me to see myself trying to justify my thoughts because I want them to be real. I’m identifying with the mistaken thought system.
This is when I am grateful that God gave me the Holy Spirit, Who does not mistake illusions for reality. In any moment I can reach to Him and accept His help to lay down those defenses, let go of those judgments and set aside the attempts to justify my thoughts. I need His help moment by moment. With His help, I return to peace. With His help, I accept the joy, the happiness that God wants for me and has given me.
Holy Spirit, I dedicate this day to following your lead so that I may be truly happy.
I need a lot of reminding that what I see through the body’s eyes is nothing and that it does not meaning anything. Giving meaning to what I see through the body’s eyes is the barrier to vision. I need a lot of reminding that what I see is the projection of my own mistaken thoughts. “Ideas leave not their source.” What I am seeing are the ideas that are coming from my own split mind. There is nothing to do with these ideas but to hand them over to the Holy Spirit so we will see their nothingness and let them go.
I am finding that this takes diligent practice. It still seems so easy to make the world real again. It still seems so easy to see something ‘wrong’ out there in the world. I need reminding that there is no ‘world out there.’ I am dreaming a dream that is not real. All the meaning I am giving this dream is coming from my own thoughts. I can let it go.
I am willing to practice today recognizing that the forms I see as ‘outside me’ are not real. I am willing to practice asking for God’s Thoughts and quieting my mind enough to accept God’s Thoughts. When I forget that I am the one that is giving the world all the meaning it has for me, I am the one that is writing this script, I am willing to return to this practice without guilt.
Jesus gives me the benefits of this practice in the Introduction to the Review Lessons. What particularly stood out to me is that the reason I am practicing these lessons so diligently is so that I can bring the peace that comes from my true Nature to every situation I find myself. I need to practice and apply these lessons to heal every place where I still get upset, or feel vulnerable or helpless. I need to practice remembering that I am peace in every situation. I am determined to practice moving through the clouds of ego perception with the Holy Spirit, helping me see everything with new eyes.
The happy hearted are those who see with the eyes of Love. They seek not to hold on to shame, sorrow, guilt or judgment. The happy hearted let go of all ego thoughts. They carry them with an open hand; they look at ego thoughts but do not hold on to them. They are carried lightly so that Holy Spirit can blow them away with a single soft breath. The happy hearted continually ask for this soft breath of Love and see only the Light in the open hand. The happy hearted know and trust Holy Spirit to take away every ego thought and replace the illusion with true vision.
Today I desire to be happy hearted. Today I desire only the meaning of the soft breath. Today I desire to see only the meaning of Love.
Today I started the day with a heavy heart, but hoped that my prayers would be heard. Yes, Spirit has “blown them away with a single soft breath.” I feel lighter now, trusting that God’s love is all-powerful and the yoke can be lightened.
© 2003, Pathways of Light.
God is the mirror of silence in which all creation is reflected.
Paramahansa Yogananda

“Dead yesterdays and unborn tomorrows,
 why fret about it, if today be sweet.” 
― Omar Khayyám
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